Hello! My name is Starsha. I'm 33, a wife, a mother, and a graduate student in counseling psychology.


I believe that fat people are more than just the fat they carry. They are more than the stereotyped image of the fat person who is lazy and eats all day. They have lives and families. Yet they seem to be open targets for public shame and humiliation. It seems that so many people are all too willing to poke fun at someone who is fat because of some preconceived notion that all fat people choose to be that way. Just because fat is so obvious. It cannot be hidden. It can't be tucked away within ourselves or stuffed in a box and stored under the bed. It can never be a secret.


I'm pro-fat acceptance because I am pro-human rights. Fat people have a right to feel comfortable in their own skin. They have a right to leave their houses without shame or fear of being mocked. Other people do not have to like it, but they certainly do not have a right to make someone feel less than human because of it.

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Argentina’s president just did this.

You do realise that being fat is a major cause of type II diabetes? Like, are you ignoring basic facts now?

http://www.diabetesaustralia.com.au/Understanding-Diabetes/What-is-Diabetes/Type-2-Diabetes/

http://diabetes.webmd.com/guide/type-2-diabetes

- E.

Actually diabetes is more closely related to dietary intake than it is to actual body size, according to my NRT doctor. I was able to resolve my pre-diabetic blood sugar levels without significant weight loss (like 15lbs). I changed my diet and cut out white sugar and starches (though I do have sugar on occasion) along with my NRT supplements and herbs. I went from a fasting blood sugar of 115 to a level consistently in the 70’s.

I’m still fat (technically morbidly obese) though…. so? Could it really have been my fat that caused my blood sugar to rise or could there be another explanation?

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“…It seemed straightforward. Hirsch found eight people who had been fat since childhood or adolescence and who agreed to live at the Rockefeller University Hospital for eight months while scientists would control their diets, make them lose weight and then examine their fat cells.

The study was rigorous and demanding. It began with an agonizing four weeks of a maintenance diet that assessed the subjects’ metabolism and caloric needs. Then the diet began. The only food permitted was a liquid formula providing 600 calories a day, a regimen that guaranteed they would lose weight. Finally, the subjects spent another four weeks on a diet that maintained them at their new weights, 100 pounds lower than their initial weights, on average.

Hirsch answered his original question - the subjects’ fat cells had shrunk and were now normal in size. And everyone, including Hirsch, assumed that the subjects would leave the hospital permanently thinner.

That did not happen. Instead, Hirsch says, “they all regained.” He was horrified. The study subjects certainly wanted to be thin, so what went wrong? Maybe, he thought, they had some deep-seated psychological need to be fat.

So Hirsch and his colleagues, including Rudolph Leibel, who is now at Columbia University, repeated the experiment and repeated it again. Every time the result was the same. The weight, so painstakingly lost, came right back. But since this was a research study, the investigators were also measuring metabolic changes, psychiatric conditions, body temperature and pulse. And that led them to a surprising conclusion: fat people who lost large amounts of weight might look like someone who was never fat, but they were very different. In fact, by every metabolic measurement, they seemed like people who were starving.

Before the diet began, the fat subjects’ metabolism was normal - the number of calories burned per square meter of body surface was no different from that of people who had never been fat. But when they lost weight, they were burning as much as 24 percent fewer calories per square meter of their surface area than the calories consumed by those who were naturally thin.

The Rockefeller subjects also had a psychiatric syndrome, called semi-starvation neurosis, which had been noticed before in people of normal weight who had been starved. They dreamed of food, they fantasized about food or about breaking their diet. They were anxious and depressed; some had thoughts of suicide. They secreted food in their rooms. And they binged.

The Rockefeller researchers explained their observations in one of their papers: “It is entirely possible that weight reduction, instead of resulting in a normal state for obese patients, results in an abnormal state resembling that of starved nonobese individuals.”

Eventually, more than 50 people lived at the hospital and lost weight, and every one had physical and psychological signs of starvation. There were a very few who did not get fat again, but they made staying thin their life’s work, becoming Weight Watchers lecturers, for example, and, always, counting calories and maintaining themselves in a permanent state of starvation.

“Did those who stayed thin simply have more willpower?” Hirsch asked. “In a funny way, they did.”

One way to interpret Hirsch and Leibel’s studies would be to propose that once a person got fat, the body would adjust, making it hopeless to lose weight and keep it off. The issue was important, because if getting fat was the problem, there might be a solution to the obesity epidemic: convince people that any weight gain was a step toward an irreversible condition that they most definitely did not want to have.

But another group of studies showed that that hypothesis, too, was wrong.

It began with studies that were the inspiration of Ethan Sims at the University of Vermont, who asked what would happen if thin people who had never had a weight problem deliberately got fat.

His subjects were prisoners at a nearby state prison who volunteered to gain weight. With great difficulty, they succeeded, increasing their weight by 20 percent to 25 percent. But it took them four to six months, eating as much as they could every day. Some consumed 10,000 calories a day, an amount so incredible that it would be hard to believe, were it not for the fact that there were attendants present at each meal who dutifully recorded everything the men ate.

Once the men were fat, their metabolisms increased by 50 percent.

They needed more than 2,700 calories per square meter of their body surface to stay fat but needed just 1,800 calories per square meter to maintain their normal weight.

When the study ended, the prisoners had no trouble losing weight.

Within months, they were back to normal and effortlessly stayed there.

The implications were clear. There is a reason that fat people cannot stay thin after they diet and that thin people cannot stay fat when they force themselves to gain weight. The body’s metabolism speeds up or slows down to keep weight within a narrow range. Gain weight and the metabolism can as much as double; lose weight and it can slow to half its original speed.

That, of course, was contrary to what every scientist had thought, and Sims knew it, as did Hirsch….” - By Gina Kolata; New York Times Healthscience 2007

(This is a segment from a very interesting article that examines body size, set-point weight, and the genetic implications associated with it. The article also reviews studies by Dr. Albert Stunkard involving adoptees and twins. Read more here.)

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chubbyiskawaii:

It’s called Health at Every Size by Linda Bacon. You can download it here for free.

It’s an amazing and insightful book and one of these days I want to type up a post that quickly touches on some of her more important points but that will probably take me a while to arrange so for now, you can take a look at the e-book, if you’d like! (It’s a PDF).

Nothing I can say about it could possibly do this book justice, so just take a look at it. Even if you just skim the introduction and the first chapter or so, it’s really positive and helpful and just amazing.

Just check it out if you need a good dose of body positivity!

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I hate it when people take other people’s works of art and defile it to be hateful. This work of art is from Leonard Nemoy’s, The Full Body Project.

Leonard is very disappointed in you.

I hate it when people take other people’s works of art and defile it to be hateful. This work of art is from Leonard Nemoy’s, The Full Body Project.

Leonard is very disappointed in you.

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for Kyle Hood’s The People Project.

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  • Question: Hi! I love your blog! I also need advice. I started a new course in September and Facebook-friended many of my fellow students. A woman I friended had started a radical diet and exercise program online and was being paid to 'coach' others. She dropped out of the program quickly so I never really got to know her. Today, out of the blue, she messaged me personally asking if I wanted her to coach me. I'm a little offended and hurt and don't know how to respond. What is a body-positive response? - Anonymous
  • Answer:

    First, I think it is important to recognize that she probably isn’t doing what she is doing to be malicious, as she is operating in a popular cultural framework that dictates that all of us must want to be thinner because thinner = healthier.

    That being said, it is also completely understandable that you felt offended because of the implications of her offer. I, myself, receive countless offers to join weight loss regimes by family and friends via Facebook. My husband has family members that invite me to events and not him. I do get a bit miffed, because I have stated how I feel about the matter. I cannot dictate what the absolute right thing to respond is, but I can tell you a couple of options that I would personally consider:

    1. Ignore her. Simply don’t respond.

    2. Politely decline her offer and leave it at that. You are not required to explain yourself, so do not feel obligated to do so.

    3. Politely decline her offer and take the opportunity to share your body-positive outlook. (Example: Thank you for thinking of me for this opportunity but I must decline. I do not feel that dieting is beneficial to my health. I feel that raging against my body is counter-intuitive to its overall well-being…. and so on and so forth)

    You are different and can certainly handle the situation as you wish. I am just telling you how I would handle it… but I am an entirely different individual. :) I hope I helped you. If not, feel free to tell me!

    P.S. Thank you for loving my blog! :D

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I take issue with this for 2 reasons:

1) Healthy lifestyles don’t mean that you are underfed and overworked. I don’t think that starving myself or over-working my body is healthy. Likewise, I don’t think that not exercising and eating whatever I want, whenever I want, and in whatever quantity I want it in is healthy. It makes me sad to see people righting off healthy diets* as something negative, something that will bring them pain. 

2) I don’t want anyone to be in pain. I don’t want anyone to starve. I don’t want anyone to die. I don’t hate anyone (except maybe Donald Trump, but I feel like that’s universal :p). This is my opinion: there are certain lifestyles that are not healthy to be living. I disagree that the core of HAES- eating whatever you want, whenever you want- is healthy. If I relied on intuitive eating to remain healthy, I would eat 5 bacon cheeseburgers every night and 3 gallons of sweet tea each day; someone else relying on intuitive eating might only eat 3 peas everyday. I have no doubt that what we put into our bodies affects us very powerfully, so I make sure I eat vegetables and drink water, even if I would rather be consuming something else. (Side note: The science behind why we desire to eat so much food with fat and sugar instead of craving nutrient-dense foods is fascinating, I might make a post about it in the future if anyone is interested! Back to my point…) Just because I disagree with this theory doesn’t mean I want those that do to suffer, and I’m sure that’s true for the majority of people who agree with me about HAES.

Tell me what you think in my ask box! I wasn’t aware that Tumblr had a daily ask limit, I’m kind of bummed!

*I am using this definition of the word diet: The kinds of food that a person, animal, or community habitually eats. I don’t mean 3-week crash diets or cutting out sweets for a few weeks. Don’t forget that ‘diet’ has two different meanings!
**I also want to state, again, that I don’t use the words “fat” or “thin” with malice! I’m not going to say this in every post, but I will for now since I’m new.

I think a lot of people fail to consider an individual’s perceptual framework when discussing these matters. For some people, diets are something that have been inflicted on them, something they have done a million times, and a huge source of guilt and shame. For others, a diet is just a way of life. There are many different ways to view diets. We all have our personal experiences and that will dictate how we view the world…. and let us not forget that perceptions define reality. So we are all running around with our own realities and they don’t always match up with the people around us. So the result is us running around judging each other without even considering the realities of others. If we can all just take a minute to look at the world through the eyes of others, I think we could get along significantly better.

Now, I want to address HAES. I think a lot of people view HAES as an excuse to be fat, stay fat, and to have a foodie free for all. That is not what HAES is about at all. HAES is a movement that shifts the focus of health from being weight-centric to a more lifestyle-centric modality. Body size is irrelevant. You can improve your health even if you never lose a pound. It encourages the individual to develop a healthy relationship with food and to learn to actually listen to their internal systems. We’ve been taught that our bodies are stupid, but they are actually programmed to self-regulate things like food intake. On HAES, a person also learns to figure out what foods make them feel good and what foods make them feel bad. It teaches people to find physical activity that they love. Instead of punishing their body with exercise, they can find enjoyable activities that they look forward to. HAES is also showing some promise in the treatment of eating disorders like binge eating disorder. There is a lot more to this movement than meets the eye and I think that anyone who finds themselves skeptical should read the book and see just how much research is involved and to understand that it does not encourage unhealthy behaviors. Here is a helpful article by national geographic that explains the movement. 

Disclaimer: No one owes anyone anything in regards to their own personal health. Love, acceptance, and respect should not require any qualifiers.

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Painting these nudes of myself leaves me feeling empowered as hell.
Self portrait with Rosie, my cat.
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fatvelvetcouch:

Painting these nudes of myself leaves me feeling empowered as hell.

Self portrait with Rosie, my cat.

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