Hello! My name is Starsha. I'm 33, a wife, a mother, and a graduate student in counseling psychology.


I believe that fat people are more than just the fat they carry. They are more than the stereotyped image of the fat person who is lazy and eats all day. They have lives and families. Yet they seem to be open targets for public shame and humiliation. It seems that so many people are all too willing to poke fun at someone who is fat because of some preconceived notion that all fat people choose to be that way. Just because fat is so obvious. It cannot be hidden. It can't be tucked away within ourselves or stuffed in a box and stored under the bed. It can never be a secret.


I'm pro-fat acceptance because I am pro-human rights. Fat people have a right to feel comfortable in their own skin. They have a right to leave their houses without shame or fear of being mocked. Other people do not have to like it, but they certainly do not have a right to make someone feel less than human because of it.

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healthyateverysize:

theamazingmango:

yet another unrealistic expectation for women

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We don’t even get to have arms now!?

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None of the veggietales have arms…

Things just kind of hover around their bodies… lol

Except for snoodles… they have hands… that aren’t connected to their bodies…

And I just spent way more time explaining Veggietales than any normal adult would have hahaha

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chubby-bunnies:

Fat.
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chubby-bunnies:

Fat.

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My fat body.
I guess I should be expecting anon hate soon. If not, y’all are too awesome. :3

tishrexvx:

My fat body.

I guess I should be expecting anon hate soon. If not, y’all are too awesome. :3

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pinprick:

Form.
Model- Self (Mischa MArie)
By Angela K Rough

pinprick:

Form.

Model- Self (Mischa MArie)

By Angela K Rough

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Shower fresh, squeaky clean, and coconutty oiled up.

Shower fresh, squeaky clean, and coconutty oiled up.

Kissy faced fishy lips

Kissy faced fishy lips

  • Question: Hi there! I have a question concerning sex, more specifically, sex with a fat girl. I am a size 20/22 and I'm still a virgin and part of that reason I'm holding back on sex is because I'm so insecure and nervous about having sex with a girl that is way smaller compared to me. I'm scared he's gonna get turned off, won't be able to handle my weight, or worse laugh at me because I can't perform certain positions. I know that if they really care about me they won't focus on my weight but (Part 1) - Anonymous
  • Answer:

    {(Part 2) about the rest? I just don’t know how to go through with this and I really want to start having sex but I’m so scared.}
    I would say that the two most important factors (for me) to have a positive sexual encounter is to make sure I’m having sex with someone I love that I know loves me and to accept myself unconditionally as a sexual being. Another good thing to do is to familiarize yourself with your own body. Experiment with yourself and see what feels good to you. There will be some positions that won’t work, but that is okay. It never hurts to try. :)
    If someone is going to laugh at you, put you down, or demean you because of the way you look then, in my opinion, you shouldn’t give them the honor of experiencing your body. I have experienced what it is like to have my body disrespected and looking back those people had no business being with me.
    Don’t rush yourself. You will know when it is time. Don’t rush into anything just because you are ready to not be virgin. Love yourself and nurture your body.

hahahahaha!!!!! What is this madness?

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I’m seriously bored! I’d e-love y’all forever if you’d send me some asks. Ask me anything! I’ll be 99.9999% honest.

Close up of the desk I’m in the process of painting.

Close up of the desk I’m in the process of painting.